Yes it is habit forming and I wanted to share something that happened today. I went to a building supply store to get some lighting for a house I am building. As I walked in there was a woman working stocking the shelves. All I did was build really good rapport with her using the Magical Rapport stuff. I adjusted my position of power when she walked up asking me for help. She looked at me like I was a little boy who was lost. Then she led me to what I was looking for.
We had a great connection. As I was leaving she asked if I found everything and thanked me for shopping with them.
So far so normal. What happened next was the special part. As I was loading up what I bought she came out to the parking lot and asked me to wait for a moment. She had told the owner about me and that I had saved money with them. He wanted to give me a gift certificate. I finished up loading the supplies and then he came out to the parking lot to personally give me the gift certificate and thanked me for shopping with them. Then we got into a 10 minute conversation about other stuff and he left after shaking my hand 3 times.
None of the other customers there got any of this.
This is the result of learning to build rapport and anchoring stuff. It becomes an every day occurrence. You start getting really used to it.
Keep in mind I did not ask for ANYTHING. I just connected with every employee I saw. I was not even particularly nice to anyone.
Do you want to be treated like you are special? Well that can happen anywhere and in any context. I received one email from someone in the UK. She has been out of work for 6 weeks. All of her friends have been looking for work for 9 months with no offers. She has had 4 or 5 offers in the last 6 weeks because she has been using the Interview Magic stuff when she goes for a job interview.
She even turned down a few jobs and the keep calling her back offering her more money. They even have cut her down to 4 days a week because she said she did not want to work a full week.
Another guy told me that before learning this stuff he could not even get his drink filled at one restaurant. Now he has one waitress that leaves her section in order to talk to him and harasses him to sit in her section when he eats there. His drink is never empty. His service is great. The waitress even ignores her other customers in order to talk to him.
Getting treated special is not even that hard. Just a few easy skills and you life completely changes. You get the VIP treatment everywhere you go. It becomes normal.
Let me give you something to try.
1 clear your mind of any prejudgment of who you are meeting
2 Take a moment to connect with them on a genuine level.
3 Notice what position they desire to see you through
4 Let THEM TREAT YOU WELL.
5 Reward their connection
If you follow those 5 simple steps you can be treated special too!
See our Rapport products to learn how to do this.
https://www.essential-skills.com/3dmind/products/magical-rapport/
https://www.essential-skills.com/3dmind/products/advanced-rapport-mastery/
https://www.essential-skills.com/3dmind/products/interview/
Have fun
Tom and Kim
