Anchoring Page
Kim
McFarland and Tom Vizzini present...
Artful
Anchoring
What is Anchoring?
The art of putting a push button on
emotions... your own and other peoples.
I thought I would write about why we
have chosen some of the skills that that we have and decided that they are
ESSENTIAL. These are street wise methods. They are designed to give you an
overwhelming advantage in everyday life. There is probably nothing fair about
them. To me, that's OK!
My definition of an anchor is anything
that brings up a feeling or thought of any other thing. It reminds you of
something that you have experienced. It might actually bring back that feeling
or emotion completely.
I have this habit. Whenever someone around
me is having fun...I anchor it. If they are laughing, I anchor it. I think
people should feel good around me and I am not going to leave that to chance. If
they are in a bad mood I will fire the anchor. They can feel shitty later when I
am not around.
I walk up to people and when they smile and
shake my hand I also touch them an the shoulder. Well how could you use this?
You could just keep it in the context of a seminar and never use it in real life
or spent lots of time just touching yourself.
How many different types of anchors are there?
Tonal, tactile, spatial, a word, a thing, a smell, and I could go on!
The key is to learn something and then...use
it!
I read a story in Black Belt magazine a while
back that was written by a 4th degree black belt. He said he was a bouncer in a
bar and had to remove a drunk due to anti-social behavior. Well the drunk
picked a fight with him. So drawing on all his years of training he adopted his
best Karate fighting stance. The drunk gingerly picked up a coat rack and
proceeded to beat the shit out of him!
My point is that there is training and there
is reality. There is a difference.
So why learn to anchor. Well imagine walking
into your job and suddenly and unexplainably your boss looks at you and feels
good. It might be that you anchored that feeling to yourself. We all know that
people do not get promoted due to there ability. They get promoted more often
than not, because they make people feel a certain way.
Now If you can anchor good feelings to you I
wonder what you might anchor to that co-worker that has been taking credit for
all your hard work.... I am not suggesting that you would want to learn to DO
that! It would be a sneaky and underhanded thing to do. ...
So you might ask "why bother?" Well the
reason that we decided to teach this is that so many of you have written about
getting a person into a state and having to start all over the next time you saw
them.
Well I wonder what it would be like to simply
have a handy anchor to fire so get them back in that state IMMEDIATELY!
Would that save time???
Is that worth learning???
OK so far so simple. Other than learning
how to install anchors. What I love about this is how practical it is and how
quickly you can anchor someone. What if you where to anchor for feeling
incredible??? I wonder how an woman would feel as
you walked up to her and
suddenly have these feelings just from the sight of you?
OK lets go one step further. What if you
could anchor that feeling to you business card?? Maybe to the sound of your
voice on the phone. Maybe to a small gift you give her. Who knows???
I have to tell you I have a whole
restaurant full of waitresses anchored to feeling REAL GOOD! Kim hates when I
do this! I always get great service though. They sure do smile at me a lot too!
I also get elbowed in the ribs a lot by a certain girlfriend :)
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