A few weeks ago in a thread on the ES yahoo group, where it was mentioned how do people learn from their mistakes (can't find the thread so bare with me) and there was a question posed to Tom about how he learns from mistakes and wire in the skills. His formula was simple: drop into a trance, experience the scenario as if it were happening again, and run through the scenario with various ways of handling it. So, I've been playing with this and have had some suprising results:
1) on the days that I have done this following an interaction with a client, I find that the rest of my interactions for the afternoon are much more effective in terms of calibration.
2) When I did not have the ability to just drop out for a few seconds and do this, my interactions seemed full of stops and starts in using the skill set.
3) When I do this in the morning, first thing upon rising, imagining myself using the skills effortlessly and having fun in the process, my day goes much more smoothly.
SO>>>> this has, of course, got me thinking. Perhaps when I am running the scenario in the morning and after clients, I am actually anchoring parts of my consciousness to begin use of my skillset. This doesn't seem like a future pace to me, I guess it's what you might call more of a TimeBomb anchor, Tom. Earlier in my training, I learned to anchor a response with a friend, then future pace them to an event in the future, where a certain contextual marker would be present, and when it was, their anchor would fire. Is this the same thing?
Making this already long story longer, I just thought it was cool that something that was kind of mentioned so casually in a thread has actually made a big impact on me.
Aaron K
Re: Sometimes, the smallest things make the biggest difference..
Posted On Feb 21, 2008 at 7:14 PM
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rvicuna
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Thanks for sharing Aaron, this comes in handy for me. Precisely I just past some issues this moring that I have to 3dm and apply this technique also, I don't know what order tho
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