I wanted to give a quick report on the rapport stuff I've been doing. I've doing some rapport in the past, practicing doing the steps and becoming familiar with it. Lately I've been doing it more intuitively. Basically I realized what it is and how it feels, so I threw out the steps to see what would happen. I simply got in the state and noticed the results.
I noticed a lot that people would look around at me. Sometimes I noticed that they responded differently to me. More open and friendly. This resulted in me also being more playful.
I've also played with different states to be in and I've found a nice relaxed playful and enjoyable state that works pretty well. I need to be more open though, which I will do some 3D Mind on.
This ia basically it. For those familiar with rapport (Tom, Kim, Steve, anyone), any advice on how to make this better? Thanks.
Hans
Re: Rapport
Posted On Dec 19, 2007 at 1:55 PM
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rvicuna
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I Think that the next step to test your new drill will be doing it with opposite state: walking in a crowd with close-type states to see what reaction do you have, is the same than before? this would be a good way to calibrate your states and their reactions
and, Did you finally tried smurfing yourself ? what were your expiriences?
cheers,
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Re: Rapport
Posted On Dec 20, 2007 at 1:18 AM
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Hans
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I Think that the next step to test your new drill will be doing it with opposite state: walking in a crowd with close-type states to see what reaction do you have, is the same than before? this would be a good way to calibrate your states and their reactions
and, Did you finally tried smurfing yourself ? what were your expiriences?
cheers,
Thanks. I did test the smurfing yourself part, without anyone around. I just tested the state and it made sense. I didn't need it yet though and it's not something I want to test just randomly, since I don't want that effect on the people I have around now.
More and more I'm beginning to step into the area of my intent leading the outcome I want. I think I *understand* the mechanics of this stuff and driven by my intent I seem to become able to get the results I want. The visualizations seems to follow naturally.
Hans
Re: Rapport
Posted On Dec 20, 2007 at 1:25 AM
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Hans
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[quote]I Think that the next step to test your new drill will be doing it with opposite state: walking in a crowd with close-type states to see what reaction do you have, is the same than before? this would be a good way to calibrate your states and their reactions
and, Did you finally tried smurfing yourself ? what were your expiriences?
cheers,
Thanks. I did test the smurfing yourself part, without anyone around. I just tested the state and it made sense. I didn't need it yet though and it's not something I want to test just randomly, since I don't want that effect on the people I have around now.
More and more I'm beginning to step into the area of my intent leading the outcome I want. I think I *understand* the mechanics of this stuff and driven by my intent I seem to become able to get the results I want. The visualizations seems to follow naturally.
Hans
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One more thing. The realization I have come to is that you're not creating something new when you use this stuff, you just tap into something that is already there.
Hans
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