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Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 2:02 PM

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Ok folks...I want to get this 2 week cahllenge rolling with something that Dave and I were talking about.

His observation was that he had no clue what he really wanted. I thought that would be a good thing to know. Some poeple know what they want but not how to get there. So have a very general idea of what to look for first.

This is a project. The first step in any project is to get an inventory of the tools you are going to need. You won't have any clue what you need to you know what you already have.

So my suggested first step is to make an inventory of your assets. I have some questions in mind to dig these out but I want to see what you can come up with first.

This project is going to take participation. I know some of you might just want to read alone but I want you to get past that and post to this project.

So here is your first task......What are you assets?



   
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Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 2:16 PM
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Quick learning, an easy relaxed communication style, a great sense of humor. That's a very short a quick list I probably have more than I realize and I wonder how well these questions will dig others out.



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 2:35 PM
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Willing to learn, willing to step out, willing to risk. Good outlook on the world, not too serious, like to play.



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 2:41 PM
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NLP Tools: Drop Down Through, Visual-Squash, Swish, Cartesian Coordinates, Timeline Theraphy
Books: Bunches of them, including access to a public library and a bookstoore.
Videos: Buncnhes of then.
Internet: Forums, discussion booads, videos, p2p networks, social networking websites.
ES: Anchoring, Rapport, 3DM
Journal, Pens, pencils, colors, crayons, poper.
Other people's materials to benchmark progress. AKAS modeling. I can check my success in comparasion of other people's success.

A Brain: check
A Body: check
A world, person, or group that I can ask a question to: check
A voice: check
Ears: check
A job: check
24 hours in a day: check
A 'lets see what happens' attitude: check
A willingness to try again: check
A willingness to modify what I am doing: check
The ability and willingness to make up my own mind: check
Friends to bitch to if I get lost or frustrated: check
The support of others: check
Something that I want to accomplish: check
Ability to appreciate my own bullshit: check
Creativity: check
Playful nest: check



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 3:26 PM
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I am really good at researching and finding out the best info on anything that I want.

I can dream really well Smile

If the communication is formal and I have something at the end of the deal, I can behave very persuasively for a short period of time. Do that allmost always when I shop, and if I need to make deals with people I dont know ..

I am a good person. I wont do anything to hurt anyone in any situation. Especially the few people I connect with. I consider that an asset.

I am eager to try anything.

I dont give up.

I am not attached to anything in the material world. I can go with food shelter for a long time without caring. That is if it takes me to a goal.

I always check things I know with other mindsets, knowledge. I never become a follower of an idea if that doesnt work.

I can give something up if I find something better.

I have discipline. If I promise myself I will do something, I will do it even if there is a war.

I care for other people.

I have a working foundation of the human mind .

I know the place where I will get the most leverage in this world is changing my mind.

I am flexible.


Harun



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 5:40 PM
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Hey Im in,
Groups to ask questions of
Friends, for skills, support, knowledge and professional bodies
Management Skills, Sales Skills, Call Centre Knowledge
Computer Media, Internet, Telephone, Ability to read and comprehend
Somewhere to live
Quick and flexible brain
ability to learn and travel
Job Club, Library, College, University
Few obvious paths for income and seed money
The ability to be like by most people
Determination and tenacious stubborness.
Musical, creative, My smile, and curiosity
NLP, Essential skills, Hypnosis, 3D Mind,



Perhaps?

   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 7:23 PM
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I'm in, sure need a new challenge.

I have read everything everyone else has been written up until now. But I still have problem answering your question. So here are a few things I could think of.

Fascinations for new things.
Good humour.
My training.
Open and willing to learn.



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 8:08 PM
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I'm in,
Assets? good question, the first and biggest: Open to learn , then open to be challenged, thirsty for knowledge and improvement, curiosity and commintment, that should fit the bill but in case it not, then attitute to get what it takes to get what I want :-)

Also training in 3dm, some NLP, Silva, Mind maps, photoreading,

Let's go



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Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 8:53 PM
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This is a tough one. I feel like I have a lot of great assets. I just can't get to a lot of them unless im in the right mood and then it all comes naturally.

I'm really great at working on the phone when it comes to sales
I enjoy public speaking when i have everything planed out and i know what im doing
I don't like to give up when im committed to something
I'm honest
I can take risks when the odds are in my favor and i understand the situation
I'm open minded
I have free time
I can be a very fun or enjoyable person to be around when im in the right mood
I'm creative
I enjoy learning



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 20, 2007 at 10:26 PM
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I'm in for this one. Assets: willing to learn, pretty smart, curious,



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Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 1:37 AM
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Allrighty. I took 45 minutes to start writing this list in my journal. It's not done. I'll be adding more tomorrow morning. I include not only things and abilities I have but also personality traits I value and personal accomplishments. Why go half, assed, after all? Smile

Note: I merely brainstormed. These aren't grouped or listed in any specific way.

*I'm very intelligent and learn quickly
*I'm skilled with most things technological
*I can set up a website and maintain it, learning as I go
*I'm an honest person which makes me trustworthy and honest in many situations
*I have a great work ethic. I can never get permanently comfortable with slacking off when I'm on the clock.
*I enjoy teaching others and I'm good at it
*I'm very educated and I can hold my own in discussions in the hard and social sciences
*I have a driver's license
*I engage customers easily
*I've been in a long-term relationship
*I have immediate family who help to support me
*I have several friends and contacts who are business-minded
*I have good friends all over the world who I can talk with
*I'm decent looking
*I have the ability to connect with people easily
*I'm good at finding out what a customer needs
*I've been philosophical-minded. I don't live an unexamined life.
*I took part in the Grand Excursion
*I've managed people
*I can cook
*I know how to use rope
*I have excelled at every job I have ever had
*I'm funny and can make people laugh
*I can see the absurd in just about anything and laugh about it
*I was once in the top 20 salespeople in a district after only 2 months of experience.

I'll have another go at it tomorrow morning.



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 2:21 AM
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Ok, I'll jump on board too. This will be a BIG Ramsey boot in my behind. Wink



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Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 7:42 AM
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OK, I'm in. In fact, it strikes me that anybody that did the 3DMind seminar in Atlanta a few weeks ago ought to be here too. Now the “homework” ...

Hoo-boy – this hurts ! Why ? Because looking at what I *do* have makes me feel bad about the fact that I in spite of all of these “assets”, I am not happy with where I am and that I don't (yet) have what I want. I guess that I am not using the assets very well !

Anyway, this is a bit of a brainstorm, but here goes ...
  • I am fairly fit and healthy (one slightly dodgy knee, so no jogging Sad but I can dance with it – those that know me know that this is VERY important to me !Wink
  • I have a good basic education i.e. I can read, write, calculate and communicate fairly well.
  • I am pretty much a “free agent” at the moment. I won't bore everyone with the details but family upheavals over the last couple of years have culminated with me taking something of a sabbatical from my old corporate existence. Because I don't really want to go back to that kind of life, I have been exploring entrepreneurial activities for the future. This ties in with the next item, because in that time I have discovered that ...
  • I am good at starting projects ... sometimes not so good at finishing them !
  • I am pretty creative in my own way ... for example, I like to write, I have performed in and taught “improv”, I play the piano (badly), I used to draw (badly) and of course, I love to dance Big Grin
  • I have a long-standing interest in bettering myself. This led me to the self-improvement field where (amongst other things) I have studied Silva, NLP and of course, ES Wink
    I like and I am going to borrow Dave Foris's line that “I've been philosophical-minded. I don't live an unexamined life.” Though I guess one of the reasons that we're here is because of the dangers that Phill alluded to on the list, namely that it's easy to spend too much time examining it !
  • I am good at transferring knowledge and skills e.g. as a trainer. I really enjoy this too.
  • Having just turned 50 Shocked I suppose that I have quite a little “life experience”.
  • I have a few very good friends – sadly, most of them seem to live a l-o-n-g way away Sad
  • In what was my professional field (IT), I have a lot of experience though it doesn't really particularly fit many of the check boxes which that industry wants.
  • I'm smart enough to be here !
Interested to see what Tom is going to come up with here.

Whilst I'm here, Happy Thanksgiving to all my American friends.

Roger



   
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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 11:23 AM
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Ok, I'll jump on board too. This will be a BIG Ramsey boot in my behind. Wink



Ok Where are you assets Frustrated



   
Re: Lets get rolling
Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 12:00 PM
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lol Tom is this hairy guy you Smile



   
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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 1:27 PM
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Hi guys.

Asset list:

* Quick learner
* Intelligent
* Good rapport with people
* Have some great mentor relationships
* Continually improving my time management and focus
* Open to challenges
* Skilled at 3D Mind. Smile





   
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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 2:15 PM
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[quote]Ok, I'll jump on board too. This will be a BIG Ramsey boot in my behind. Wink



Ok Where are you assets Frustrated [/quote]

Oops!

Embarassed


Willing to learn and take risks, I am coachable. A good friend when you get to know me.
Can take constructive criticism(the ramsey boot). Persistent. Will help anyone if they need support. Good sense of humour. I am a hard worker.



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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 2:15 PM
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[quote]Ok, I'll jump on board too. This will be a BIG Ramsey boot in my behind. Wink



Ok Where are you assets Frustrated [/quote]

Oops!

Embarassed


Willing to learn and take risks, I am coachable. A good friend when you get to know me.
Can take constructive criticism(the ramsey boot). Persistent. Will help anyone if they need support. Good sense of humour. I am a hard worker.



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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 5:15 PM
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Here it goes, letting my mind flow:

Me myself and I
My body
Health
Eating healthy and being healthy and fit, running, skying,swim, snorkeling, scubadive,
have a cat
smart
easy going
friends around the world
been to the most amazing places in the world
becoming a dad
freedom to live my own life
great girlfriend
being a coach
being a Youth at Risk Coach
great house to live in
internet
computer skills
own website
own blog
know and practice NLP
NLP training -
ES training
Been on the road for years with bands, musicians, fashion designers,
great at 3DMind
meditate
do energy drills
been to india
been to india practicing yoga
seen people die, seen people live, seen people make amazing recoveries.
have a great suporting peergroup
have met zillions of people around the world
have reads hundreds of books
finishing up editing an ebook on motivation
helping people
play the guitar/piano
on the 3DMind list
going to see Dilts for 3 days in a few days.
know about politics. - know about science
doing prebirth exercises - :-)
doing my daily target praxis - simpleology 101
Am on Mark Joyner's year long Worth of Mouth marketing course - which is a blast.
and allows me to have access to some great material from great marketeers out there: Mark Joyner, Joe Sugarman, Dan Kennedy, Joe Vitale, Tellman Knudson, Ted Nicholas, ...
Getting things done
done the 30day challenge -where i learned lots about internet marketing
done my own 87 day 3dmind drill -which kind of changed my life :-) - so know i know for myself what works and what doesnt.
Practice KAIZEN in my own life.
Have the money to spent on the things i find important
love learning new things
am open to learn stuff which contradicts my beliefs at that moment.
know about Direct and Viral Marketing
Talk and Read English, Dutch, French and German - about to learn Spanish
know how to type,read, listen, have fun, be sad, be light,
Flexible
Use Silva Mind Control techniques - great for getting up on time without using an alarm and much much more :-)
know how to focus my own mind. when necessary (= when i want )
know how to mind map - though i dont' use it often.
love making, cooking Thai food, especially green curry's :-)
have zillion ideas to make life better - and acting upon a few of them..:-)
And I know some have been running away with my ideas but that's ok.
Capable of learning from my own mistakes.
I Know what I don't want
Know what I do want
know how to get there and have the skill to get there
have the commitment to get there
and am acting upon it.

be in a/the flow

Have fun

Great exercise Tom!

Bart
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Posted On Nov 21, 2007 at 8:56 PM
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What are my assets?
Curiosity, Desire, Passion, Unwillingness to settle, Stubborn, I am flexible, I am very creative, I have a wild imagination, I can be sneaky and get what I want, I am warm, People warm to me easily and trust me quickly, I am supportive, I am generous, I am able to easily motivate and inspire others, People easily follow my lead (depending on my state), I can make complex ideas, and things seem simple and easy to understand, I can easily connect with others (depending on my state), When I am not focused on my own crap I can easily read people and see them, I can use computers, edit film, create movies, direct movies, I am a Great Actor, I have empathy and compassion, And I know when to be hard with people when they need a good kick in the rear to get them moving, I am aggresive, I am energetic, I have amazing stamina, I love to work out, I am able to manage and lead, I can make people laugh and smile, allowing them to feel connected, accepted, and important, I know what I need to work on in my life and right now am taking action toward that, I can 3D Mind, I know how to anchor, calibrate and get rapport, I know jeet kune do, I know Karate, I can paint, I can Draw, I know how to fly a plane, I know how to buy investment Real Estate, I can Sing, Dance, And Act, I can Juggle, I can entertain, I can laugh at myself (depending on my state), I can Sell, I can make people money, I can type extremely fast, I can use a computer, I can tie my shoes, I can ski, I can Cook!

Shane



   
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Posted On Nov 22, 2007 at 12:45 AM
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Okay. Here's more....

*I know how to take charge of people in difficult or crisis situations
*I'm very good at keeping my cool
*I'm responsible and dependable
*I'm a conscientious driver
*I'm in good physical shape
*I enjoy getting lost and seeing something I otherwise wouldn't have
*I can be professional
*I learn from my mistakes
*I make a damn fine cup of coffee!
*I'm generous
*When someone or something is under my care, I go the extra mile to make sure things are done right
*I'm not easily offended
*I don't have a fragile ego
*I've got a steady paycheck, money saved in the bank, and a big tax refund coming
*I own a computer
*The place I live in is fully furnished
*I have nice clothes and a suit in the closet
*I have a cat that makes me smile
*I've used various kinds of power tools to build things
*I took an art class once-frustrating as it was-in order to learn how to draw better
*I have basic programming skills
*I'm a very down-to-earth person
*I get along well with animals
*I'm likeable
*I understand pretty well how people tick and I learn more daily
*I've practiced martial arts for several years
*I can move gracefully and with balance when I choose to
*I can focus or exdpand my perceptual awareness at will
*I can laugh at myself



   
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Posted On Nov 22, 2007 at 4:28 AM
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Hey guys,

Reading your posts made me realize some of my other assets. Thanks for it!

I can learn quickly.
I have great family who is always there for me.
I have a 4 year old cousin who is the brightest kid I have ever seen and I am his mentor Smile
I learn and use many things most people have no clue about.
I can drive dangerously well Smile
I am physically fit.
I live in a beautiful apartment.
My family is financially stable.
I can get a sense of people quickly and sense what's in their minds.
I can get in the shape of any person I meet and have them want to connect.
I hold an Economics degree.
I speak Turkish, English and am learning Spanish.
I am clever.
I like breaking boundaries.
I dont like rules.
I am not a politically correct guy.
I can type really fast.
I can come up with solutions in any situation.
My family come from diverse places. I am Israeli, Turkish and Spanish at the same time.
I have been in a long term relationship.
I have a sister who is very clever, outgoing and successful. She gives me a girls perspective all the time.
I am alot of fun when I am in my crazy mood.
I can get people motivated when I believe in something.
I am a decent soccer player.
I am a decent table tennis player.
I HAVE FRIENDS ALL OVER THE WORLD
I am 23 years old
I've got 2-3 older people who want to be bussiness partners with me.
I read lots of books on subjects such as the brain, persuasion, longetivity , investing , entrepreneurship, marketing etc...
I travel as much as I can.

Harun



   
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Posted On Nov 22, 2007 at 9:25 AM
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Bright
Willing
Determined to get what I want
Focused
Logical thinker
Great perservance
Adventurous
Playful
Sense of humor
Eager to learn
Battle tested
Expect to succeed
Internal motor always capable of more no matter what gear I am in
Ambitious
Fair, just
Broad ranging vision and understanding
Really enjoy new directions Laughing
Have a mother with a weird maiden name


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