Are You Tired of Being Afraid?
by TomVizzini


Fear is the most common emotion that gets in the way of success.

It might be fear of public speaking, fear of asking for a raise, fear of
approaching women.  Fear of intimacy.  Fear of confrontation.  Fear
of success.  Fear of letting go.  

It doesn't matter what the fear is applied to.  It is all still fear. 
It is a very primal emotion.  


Let me give you some help understanding fear.  Fear has a very unique
effect on the brain.  The more afraid you are the less access you
have two the creative and adaptive abilities of your brain.  The less
access you have to the creative and adaptive abilities of your brain
the more fear gets generated.

You may be able to use willpower to overcome fear temporarily. 
Eventually the fear will always win until
you actually do something to break the cycle of fear.  While it might
only be apparent in one or two areas of your life I can guarantee
that if you have this kind of fear it affects everything you do.

 
This fear can become a trap.  It can make you overly cautious.  It can
make you withdraw and hide from the world.  It can keep you trapped in
the job that you hate.  It can keep you from having the relationships
that you crave.  

Anybody that has been trapped by this kind of fear
knows exactly what I'm talking about.  

Let me tell you a little bit
about myself and how fear almost ruined my life.  I used to be one of
those people that you would never notice in a group.  I would think of
something interesting to say about the time I got over the fear that
conversation had moved well past my comment.  It fueled my
procrastination. I was certifiably shy.  

The result was that
would wander through the world complaining about how life wasn't fair
to me.  I would let people stomp all over me and say nothing.  I would
put up with lousy service.  I would sit and watch as other men walked
away with the women that I was interested in.  I would also sit and
watch as other people would get promotions or jobs that I knew I was
better qualified for.  


Fear is the most primal emotion there is. On
the other hand it is a very important emotion.  It keeps you from
doing stupid things.  It makes you careful.  The problem is when fear
becomes an overwhelming emotion.  That is when it gets in the way.

 
Imagine your biggest fear.  At first it seems like something so
massive that there is no way we could possibly find your way around
it.  This is actually what happens inside of the physical brain.
Fear builds a neurological connection to the primal brain.  It
generates a behavior that actually becomes stronger through time if
you don't do anything about it.  

The answer isn't to eliminate fear.

 That would lead to a whole other basket of problems.  Imagine not
being afraid to jump off a cliff or step in front of a car .
   
Working on things like this is what motivated Kim and I to develop
the 3-D Mind.  We met so many people who read so much potential for
letting fear it in the way of them realizing that potential.  

How does the 3-D mind accomplish this?  

The 3-D mind accomplishes this
by using the concept of balance.  Through our studies of Chinese
medicine, Qi Gong and other disciplines we discovered that the best
solution for one thing is not going all the way into the opposite
direction.  When you have a balanced mind then you can have fear and
still be able to accomplish things.  Fear will do its job of keeping
you careful yet not build an impenetrable wall that you cannot break
through.  

The beauty of the 3-D Mind is that you don't have to go
into the past and dredge up all kinds of unpleasant memories and
relive them to take care of the problem.  You don't have to find
someone in your life to blame.  You don't have to spend endless hours
of self-examination.  

All you have to do is decide what it is that
you do want to do.   That is the first question of the 3-D mind.
What you want to be able to do?  

The 3-D Mind is more than just a
process.  It is an entirely different philosophy of change than most
people are used to.  First of all it is easy to learn.  Second is
easy to use.  

No, it is not a magic pill that will fix all of your
problems with one use.  Using the 3-D Mind is your first step down a
path to cleaning up all the garbage that keeps you from getting what
you want.  

Many of you have made the decision to learn some very
powerful tools.  Some of you have used them to generate massive
success in your life.  Others know what the tools are but have yet to
bring themselves to actually use them.  It is time to move to the next
level in your life.  

This September and Atlanta we are holding the
3-D Mind seminar.  This seminar is designed to start you down the
path of living a balanced life by using a balanced mind.  We want you
to be able to take the tools you could learn and start applying them
and making them part of your life rather than a collection on your
shelf.

   If you're tired of being afraid then you just must get to
the 3-D Mind seminar.  It is time for you to become the person that
you have the potential of becoming.  

If you like to make that
decision today than here is where you want to go.
 
http://essential-skills.com/3dmpracatlanta.htm [1]  

We only have one spot left for the early seminar discount.  

Let us show you how to
have like you've always dreamed of.  Let us teach you the tool that
you will be able to apply the rest of your life.  Let us show you how
to become the person that other people admire for their charisma and
skill.  

Instead of being tired of being afraid become excited to be
alive!  

Real Skills for the Real World
 www.essential-skills.com [2]
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 3D Mind 


Originally Posted: Aug 17, 2007 at 12:13 PM
Last Updated: Aug 17, 2007 at 12:13 PM





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